Thursday, July 12, 2012

My husband is my love for a reason


Sometimes... no most times... really just about all the time I have quite an amazing husband. He is patient, kind, funny, smart, and crazy productive. He does so much for me and despite the way I act, he asks very little. On Monday,  I came in to find my beautiful white calla lily that has been in bloom since early February was finally killed by a week of July heat. I mentioned it to my husband. Two days later I come in to work and get a delivery from ProFlowers with flowers and chocolate. And not just any flower, roses.

 
Just cuz. Love, G

He really does a great job of making me smile and telling me he loves me every day. I love him. Every day. 

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In thesis news, I finished my first draft. I am having it reviewed and then will update it, send it off, update it again and be DONE! So excited to read a book and enjoy my summer, stress free. Continue watching Community and Doctor Who like it's my job. Speaking of Community....

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My other life partner Lynne and I brought our relationship to a whole new level this week. On Community, two characters have a fake morning show. They even have their own mugs. It's called Troy and Abed in the Morning. 

They sing the title and then pretend to have a morning show...


So I one time made a joke where I pretended that Lynne and I had a show called Lynne and Jackie in the Morning... Which made us look up the mugs, which made us say okay, we should have our own mugs. Lynne gave me the deadline of Christmas to figure out how to make it happen. I got back to her in 5 minutes and then it took me a day to get the image for the mug just right.



We ordered them yesterday... yea. That just happened.

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Kitten has left the building...



Desdemona has a new home! Here she is playing with Olive. Playing.. fighting...  same difference. I am happy to say she will have a new kitty friend, a 2.5 year old, and a new mom and dad to take care of her.

I totally cried when our friend drove off with her. I couldn't believe how upset I was. It was mostly happy tears that she is healthy, happy, and full of energy when she left; no longer starving and sick and full of fleas. We only had her for 6 days, but they were so full of emotion and craziness.


I'm outta here! 

Incidently, I'm not way behind on my self imposed thesis deadlines. I got a lot written yesterday and today, but there is a good amount left to be done. But it's vacation time and I plan on enjoying this super long weekend. 

And in other news, we found a fabulous groupon for our trip to Niagara Falls, so our anniversary trip is booked! Can't wait.  

Friday, June 29, 2012

Kitty Drama 2012

This is the story of a kitty on a mission. On Wednesday, while weeding around the pool in my backyard, our dog Olive was chasing something around until she chased it right over to me and I scooped her up. Now, for those non-cat people who don't know, stray cats, or even most cats, do not go quietly and nicely to strangers. This little lady was feather light and let me hold her while I just walked around the yard thinking, what do I do with her?? 


So my husband and I drove her over to the vet that we bring our dogs to, but it turns out they were closed. So we sat in the car looking up shelters, but they all closed at 4 or 4:30pm and it was just after 5pm. So she wandered around the car while we tried to figure out our next move. 

Look, I'm in an ashtray!

It looked like there was nothing we could do for the night, so we brought her back to the house. I crushed up some dog food and added water to make it soft and gave her a bowl of water and put her in the library away from the dogs. I posted a picture (the one above) on Facebook in the hopes that someone might be interested. A lot of people told me to keep her, but I knew our house was not the right one for this kitten. 

It took everything I had to keep strong and try to find somewhere to bring her. The next day, I went to work and  left a little early to bring her to a shelter so she could be adopted. I brought her to the closest one and waited until someone came to reception. A man jumped in front of me to talk to the lady so I stayed seated. He asked them to take 4 cats. They said they cannot take any more cats or kittens. He asked them to put the cats down then. They told him they could not put down healthy animals. He said he couldn't keep them and the receptionist suggest that he try a vet, who might euthanize them. 

My heart broke.

I stood up still in shock after the man left to assumingly get those cats killed. She told me the same thing, that they could not take any more cats or kittens. They were storing them in the office, reception area, and everywhere else. So I left, called my husband and cried. I promised the kitty I wouldn't let anyone kill her. So I went to the car and called the local chapter of PAWS, they don't accept cats or kittens, and neither did the other 3 shelters I tried. I was heartbroken. I was considering keeping her, but with the puppies, the possibility of her getting out of the yard and the added cost was not looking good. So I called North Shore Animal League and went on a waiting list. 

I left and went to the supermarket to get her food and litter, made an appointment for later that day with my vet and took her home. I posted about the saga on Facebook and asked is someone could please give her a home. 

Guess where I am?

Just before the vet appointment, my wonderful friend Kelly said she was considering it. She owned two cats already and I know she does well with her cats. So I took her to the vet where they confirmed what I was only assuming, that she is a girl. She is 6-7 weeks old. She did have fleas and a minor upper respiratory infection (aka kitty cold), but healthy otherwise, which the vet was surprised but pleased about.  He gave us meds and flea medication and told us to give her a bath. 
Drying off.

Licking herself as she dries.

Fluffy once more!

Once it was confirmed she was a little lady, I named her Desdemona. I sat with her in the bathroom for a while. She loves my lap and enjoyed crawling all over me.

And eating my shirt. Om nom nom nom...

The only thing I was worrying about was that the vet said that she was healthy as long as she had an appetite. And it seemed like the only appetite she had was for my shirt and fingers. She wasn't really touching the cat food. So like a good mom, I put some on my finger and let her sniff it until she ate it. Then a bit more. Then offered her the bowl. Which she ate from, but only from my lap. I spent a lot of last night sitting in the bathroom with this kitten. Once she had eaten and seemed to be in good spirits, I brought her into the living room. The dogs had been going crazy since we brought her in the house. Benny was actually a gentle giant...

You smell like kitty. 

Olive, however, as more of a sniffing bully. I think she was just excited to be bigger than someone. I couldn't even get a picture because Olive was being so ridiculous. So Desi snuggled up to me. Every once in a while she would venture off to other parts of the couch. She enjoyed attacking toes...
Mmmm.... those toes look delicious.

So now she is back in her bathroom for now, until her new mom comes to pick her up tonight. I am sad to see her go, but she needs a new home. I can't wait to watch her grow from afar. And excited that Benny might stop whining. 
Say bye bye little Desdemona!!


UPDATE: Kelly cannot take the cat. She is back to looking for a home...

Friday, June 15, 2012

Pizza and Plans



Pizza and I have a love/hate relationship right now. I love it because it is delicious and full of cheese, but I hate digesting it. Right now a lot of meat, cheese, and dough is sitting like a rock in my stomach.

I have been slacking with my posts and everyday I go home and think, I need to write a post about my trip to Austin (best trip EVER!). Then I get sleepy or start watching True Blood or Community. Or I was working on my thesis. Okay that's a lie. I have 8-10 pages due next Wednesday and I have not started writing anything. I have a detailed outline and folder that is just holding 2 inches of papers I have gone through and highlighted. So today after work I will head to a coffee shop and try to bang out a page or two before I head home. My plan for tomorrow is to write in the morning, L-bomb drops in the afternoon.

Lately I have been so insanely tired. Last night I had all intentions of working on my thesis, but instead I fell asleep while my hubby went to the gym and then we caught up on True Blood. Which is why I am forcing myself to get a chai* and sit in a coffee shop and write. That is if I'm not curled up in a ball in my office crying about how the delicious pizza tried to kill me


*Why is my blog not accepting chai as a correctly spelled word? Chai is delicious blogger!! Why are you anti-chai?!

Monday, May 21, 2012

Waking up from unsettling dreams

I had a dream last night that I was graduating and I was scrambling around trying to find a cap and gown. In the middle of running around my dad showed up. I asked if he was coming and he said he definitely wouldn't miss it. I'm going to spend the rest of the day trying not to cry because I am not graduating yet and my dad won't be there when I do. Where is my teddy bear when I need it.


Possibly because of the dream, I very much did not want to wake up this morning. I have to be at work at 8am and didn't get out of bed until 7:30. I had a nice three day weekend and every morning this weekend, I have woken up around 8am with the mild feeling I was going to be late for work. Well now I am at work and I wish I stayed in bed with my husband and puppies. Though if I was there, it would mean we were cleaning today since my MIL is staying at our house to dog sit this coming weekend. Cleaning, work, cleaning, work. I am not sure which I want to be doing less right now. At least I could be in my pjs if I was cleaning, though the onslaught of terrible allergies I had yesterday would probably be back if I was cleaning.

I hate dust.

In happier news, Austin is just a couple days away. Is going to the land of indie music, booze, and food trucks going to help me get into my bathing suit? No, but it will be awesome and delicious.

I'm going to get through today by listening to 90s music. DMB anyone? Jewel? Semisonic?

PS Semisonic's closing time always makes me laugh because I think of the scene from Friends with Benefits with Timberlake and Kunis and he sings that song and thinks it's Third Eye Blind. I love JT and 90s alt rock.


Saturday, May 5, 2012

Olive Gets Her Groom On!

 
Look Ma! I'm fluffy! I'm so fluffy, I can't see anything! I got my beach wave on! I'm hot as hell!!


 
Look Ma! Now I'm all clean and shaved because I got groomed today...
 
Oh, um, except that I ran outside as soon as I got home to chase Benny around and now I'm dirty again. Look at my dirty paws! Sorry... Can I have that treat now?

Sometimes I forget how small Olive is and then I get her groomed. She is a tiny girl! They kept her tail as fluffy as possible, which you can't really see. 

Friday, May 4, 2012

Hot fluffy mess!

Someone is getting a grooming tomorrow and it is not Benny. This weekend I will be writing my last paper of the semester about crisis management. It is a problem because I am not in a scholarly mood but I need to answer these questions and keep up the ruse that I am intelligent. Sometimes I feel like every class is a job interview. An important networking opportunity. Will it actually be any of those things? Probably not. But it's good practice. Stressful, stressful practice.

One year left... thesis this summer!